Choosing Peace Over Being Right
Today reminded me how tempting it is to prove a point. To explain myself. To correct misunderstandings. To make sure my side is heard and validated. There is a quiet urge inside me that wants to be understood, especially when I feel misread or unfairly judged. I think this is very human. We all want to be seen clearly. But today, I noticed something else. I noticed how heavy it feels to carry the need to be right. There was a moment earlier when I could have defended myself. I could have explained my intentions, clarified my words, and pointed out where the other person was mistaken. And for a brief second, my mind started preparing its argument. I felt my body tense, my thoughts sharpen, my emotions rise. Then I paused. I asked myself a simple question. What will this give me. Will it bring peace. Or will it only satisfy my ego for a moment. The answer was clear. So I chose silence. Not the kind that comes from fear or avoidance, but the kind that comes from wisdom. The kind tha...