Fortunate Life

 During my recent trip to Sagada from January 3-5, 2025, I had the privilege of meeting an amazing psychologist who shared an insightful perspective on my life. What started as a casual encounter turned into an impromptu consultation that left a profound impact on me. She recommended that I look up the term "parentified daughter," suggesting that it might resonate deeply with my experiences. As I delved into the concept, it was like holding a mirror to my life. Growing up as the eldest child, I never truly experienced what it meant to be a teenager. My childhood was overshadowed by responsibilities that were beyond my years. My father worked abroad, and my mother was busy with her own career, leaving me to take on the role of a caretaker for my younger siblings from an early age. Even as an elementary school student, I was tasked with ensuring my siblings returned home on time, completed their chores, and avoided conflict. It was a lot for a child to handle, but I didn’t ques...

  My Healing Journey in Sagada  Last January 3-5, I embarked on a Sagada tour that had been on my bucket list for quite some time. Originally, I planned to go last year, but life got in the way. My friends were unavailable, and when I finally decided to join a group, my schedule became too hectic. This year, I resolved to make it happen and booked a trip through a travel agent organizing tours in Sagada. It turned out to be more than just a vacation—it became a journey of healing. A Time for Reflection As my 50th birthday approaches, I’ve been overwhelmed with emotions. Menopause, hormonal imbalance, and the weight of expectations from others have taken a toll on me. I’ve invited close friends to celebrate my milestone birthday, only to face a string of declines due to prior commitments. While I understand their reasons, it hurt deeply. It felt as though no one cared enough to adjust their plans for me. Coupled with other lingering personal challenges, this left me feeling sad...

  Discovering Albay: My First Mayon ATV Adventure Nestled in the heart of Bicol, the province of Albay is home to one of the Philippines' most iconic landmarks: the majestic Mayon Volcano. Known for its perfect cone shape and breathtaking views, Mayon has long been a bucket list destination for adventurers and nature lovers alike. Recently, I had the chance to visit Albay and embark on an unforgettable Mayon ATV adventure—an experience that combined adrenaline-pumping fun with awe-inspiring scenery. Arrival and First Impressions We arrived at the ATV base camp around 10 a.m., greeted by a blazing sun that seemed determined to make its presence known. Thankfully, I had packed my trusty windbreaker, which doubled as a shield against the scorching heat. My companions were equally prepared, donning their sweaters to keep the sun at bay. The atmosphere buzzed with excitement as other visitors geared up for their adventures. Prepping for the Ride Our first task was to choose an adventure...

Hey there, It's me again. After more than four years of hiatus, I am now blogging again! 😆😆 😆 Been travelling to places recently and wanted to document my experience through blogging :) I recently had the incredible opportunity to explore the historical marvel that is Paoay Church in Ilocos Norte, Philippines, and let me tell you, it was an experience like no other. Today, I'm excited to take you on a virtual journey through this architectural gem and share my personal adventure. Arrival at Paoay Church As I approached the church, I couldn't help but be struck by the sheer grandeur of this centuries-old wonder. Paoay Church, also known as the St. Augustine Church, stands proudly amidst the lush landscapes of Ilocos Norte. Its massive coral stone walls immediately transported me to a different era, and I could feel the weight of history in the air. A Walk Through History The moment I stepped inside, I was enveloped by the aura of serenity and reverence. The soft, warm lig...

I recently saw this GIF while checking my social media and it catches my attention because aside from the explanation I read in Reddit I can relate this to my life. 1. Short distance road does not mean that it is the fastest route.            There are people who wanted to get rich but they don't want to do sweat and take lessons the right way on how to achieve their goal so they fall into get-rich-quick schemes. They are blinded by their greed to get money quickly and easily so, in the long run, they lost the money that they have.              I too had an experience where I lost all the money that I have invested in a company. I invested because a friend of mine said that it was a good investment and she was earning a lot. I researched the company and did not find any negative feedback online. Although I know that the amount that they will give on our investment is soo good to be true, I go ahead becaus...

(I have this blog drafted a few years ago and it was not published.. so I'm publishing it now :)) How it all started I got a call from a certain Col. Hernani Acosta and told me that he is the National Adviser of a group in Camp Aguinaldo (forgot to note and I don't remember the group name) Col Acosta was asking me for donations to help in "balik-eskwela". He said that it's a fundraising project to help children in the armed forces. I asked him how he got my contact number and he said that it's in their database. He gave me details on where to send the money and advised me that he will call me again to follow up. How I learned about the scam The organization I am connected to are serving in City Jail so I thought that they got my number from them but I doubled check just to be sure. I search for Camp Aguinaldo's number in the net and asked them about the program and If they know Col Acosta. They said that they don't know him and also a...

Working from home gave me the chance to arrange my schedule so that I can have time to attend or do the things that are close to my heart that ordinary employee can't do. (well, they can also do, but it would require great sacrifice because some of the things that I attended is during office hours) Last 2014, I have decided to be part of the Prison Ministry so I called my leader to volunteer my time.  Our service is on weekdays so the service team was mostly seniors who dedicated their time and effort to serve in prison. I was the youngest but they choose me to head the ministry. Serving in prison makes me understand our PDL (Person deprived of liberty) more. 1. They are a child of God and they deserve love especially from their family During our visits. Some PDL's would ask us a favor. Some would give us notes with a mobile number asking us to text the message. Most of the messages are a flea for a visit. (Of course, we ask the guard to check each note first to...