Monday, November 03, 2025

The Invisible Walls We Build

I came across a short video today — just an ant and a pen.

A guy drew a small circle around the ant, and surprisingly, the ant never tried to cross it. It just kept walking around inside the circle, as if trapped. But there was no real wall. Nothing was stopping it, except its belief that it couldn’t go further.

I stared at the screen longer than I expected.
Because I realized — that ant was me.
And maybe, it’s you too.

How many times have I drawn invisible lines around myself?
Those quiet limits that say, “You can’t do that,” or “It’s too late,” or “You’re not ready yet.”
No one really told me I couldn’t — but somehow, I believed it.
And just like the ant, I stayed in my small circle, thinking it was safety when it was actually a cage.

It made me wonder: how many dreams have I postponed because of imagined barriers?
How many chances for love or change did I walk away from because I thought the world outside that circle wasn’t for me?

The truth is, the walls that keep us stuck are often not real.
They’re made of fear, doubt, shame, and old stories we keep repeating.
But the moment we dare to test the edge — even just once — we realize the line can be crossed.
And freedom starts with that small step beyond what we thought was possible.

Maybe today, I won’t wait for someone to lift the circle for me.
Maybe I’ll just walk right through it.

Because the wall was never really there.

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